A few years ago, on one beautiful, blue sky and hot Sunday morning I was driving to town when one friend called me. He asked me to park my car and call him back. He needed to talk to me urgently.     When I parked my car I called him back. “ What is so important ? I asked, a bit annoyed as I was already late to get to my appointment. “ Janne is dead ”, he said, “ the paramedics tried to revive him but he did not make it ”.     BOOOMMMMMM!!! Life is short. It truly is.  For some, life ends sooner than it should. And on that day, I had a harsh reminder of this when I received that call to let me know that my first husband unexpectedly passed away, way too soon. I could not breathe, so I got out of the car in search of air. I wanted to run but was only able to take 2 steps before my legs gave up on me. So I fell on the floor and just stayed there crying, in complete disbelief.  As it turned out, the world did not collapse even if I did, temporarily. It is hard...